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Is it Worth the Weight?

Inside a fictitious city called Renown, the walls of every home gleamed with medals, certificates, and trophies. From childhood, every citizen was instructed that their worth was measured by their achievement—how many goals reached, # of deals closed, patents filed, or records broken. The city’s motto, which is etched in silver on the courthouse steps, reads: “Success Drives Us.”

Among Renown’s most decorated was Clara. Her living room was a shrine to her triumphs: science fairs, marathons, business awards, and even a gleaming plaque for “Citizen of the Year.” She wore her badges like armor, her calendar packed with meetings, competitions, and projects. Her parents, once local legends for their own accomplishments, looked on with pride.

Eventually, Clara noticed the cracks in her dream world. Her best friend, Jamie, stopped calling. Her younger brother, once her biggest fan, moved to a distant city, rarely replying to her messages. At work, colleagues whispered about her relentless drive, and at home, the silence grew heavy. The more she achieved, the lonelier she felt.

One evening, after another local celebration, Clara returned to her apartment and stared at her wall of accolades. Although glimmering she felt no warmth. Laughter she once shared with Jamie, the quiet afternoons with her brother, simple joys of a walk by the river—moments now lost, in  pursuit of success. The former gains once felt, were distant as are now her own brother and best friend.

That same night, Clara dreamed of a ship at sea, weighed down by its golden cargo. At first, the ship sailed ever so brutishly determined, but over time the increasing weight dragged it lower and lower until it had struck hidden rocks. The hull then  splintered, and the precious cargo spilled into the deep, dark water. Clara awoke startled and frightened, her heart was racing.

The next day, she made a decision. She called Jamie and apologized. She wrote to her brother, not about her latest award, but about missing him. She began to clear her schedule, making space for quiet dinners, walks in the park, and time to simply be. Slowly, the walls of her home had changed from selfish achievement to being filled with photos, letters, and actual memories.

Clara still valued overall achievement, but she learned that true worth wasn’t measured in medals or plaques. It was found in the gentle repair of relationships, the courage to slow down, and the quiet moments that made her feel whole. In a world obsessed with glory, Clara discovered the deeper, quieter triumph of being truly connected—and finally, she felt at peace.

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